SUCCESS - Handle Very Carefully

'Some pleasant surprises in life can cause dangerous Side-Effects.'

When I wrote this status message in Gtalk, so many questions came... What do you mean to say?...What is the surprise?...Why such heavy words?...and like dis.

I said 'this may be heavy but its true.' Sometimes we have no idea how strange and unbelievable results may come after any achievement. This is very obvious, i mean everyone wants to be successful and if it is not possible, he/she tries to be in better contact with other achievers. And there is nothing wrong from their sides. but whenever you achieve any success, you have more responsibilities how to handle this success and how to share it with everyone.

"Sometimes Your success matters more to others than to you."

Whenever you achieve something, the view of many people towards you changes sometimes by 180 degrees. Some of your relationships are changed completely for lifetime, some new relations comes to you with a smiley face mask because of your success. Some old relations may face some problems. but some friends are always there with you to support you in any situation and those are the true ones. but dangerous in the sense, you may have to face some very bitter true facts of some persons like you have never expected. How they are becoming more friendly now and how some others are now going far away, you feel helpless in both situations..

Here you have to handle it very carefully. Means you should be the same person as you were before and it is very necessary to avoid any kind of egos or rudeness. Because both these things will totally kill yourself. I think every step towards success takes you more and more up from the Earth and unintentionally you are changing many things (good and bad both!!). So just don't forget from where you came to this point and be kind and polite to everyone. This is the only way which will make you happy from inside and you will also make others happy.

Whenever any success comes to you, don't forget to look at it's backside as it comes with more responsibilities and some good lessons of a lifetime. But whatever the situation it is, Never try to lie to yourself. Just be honest at least to yourself as it will help you to keep going on the right path.

Hmmm.... more than enough of heavy words here... so at last, i just wanna say If You have achieved something small or big, then do one thing for sure please... It's my request to you.. and this one thing you must do. You know what? Are CELEBRATE IT... Party Karo.. Enjoy your success... :) ...and...."જલસા કરો" ...and B+...

Pray that success will not come any faster than you are able to endure it. - Elbert Hubbard

FRIENDS and 'THE FRIENDSHIP'

Friendship- has become very easy to say word today. Especially after arrival of these community sites, the word is used very often in different forms. In these sites, we are having too too many friends. Some are school/college mates, some are family, some are unknown chat friends, and the latest category is by the way friends (means we have seen their face once but never talk to them). But the Friendship is different with everyone. I still get surprised when I see 100-200 friends on orkut profiles!!!, Though I prefer to use the word 'classmate' sometimes (instead of 'friend' obviously).

Friends are no doubt the most important and memorable in our life. But when talking about true or best friends or you can say, close friends, we have to be very very careful to handle the relation. Sometimes a small mistake or misunderstanding may lead to a disastrous end of your friendship. True friends are hard to meet, but sometimes it is even harder to manage. I am not saying that friendship is a tough relation, but when you know that your friend is very good person with a little insecure nature or a little bit of bad qualities, it is tough to handle it. Especially when it directly hurts you, at that time you have to sportily ignore it. Generally insecurity or similar small things lead us to break the friendship or it makes the relation slightly bitter, but it’s up to your nature whether you take it as a weakness of your friend or a reason to break the friendship. The worst part is that when you review your close friends from others’ talk. I mean if you think they are your true/good friends then what is the need to ask others’ about them. And surprisingly what is the reason to believe such talks?? In friendship, you may interfere in small things of your friend or you can give advice in very small issues but sometimes you have to willingly forgive some very big issues or big things. That is the beauty of friendship.

People say ‘In friendship No Sorry, No Thank you’, but I think a small sorry can be very helpful sometime to hold the breaking friendship. No more time or formal sentences are needed in friendship, just one ‘Hi!’ is enough (Today only one miscall is needed :-)!!).

Friends are those with whom we share all the things which we generally not share to anyone, not even with our parents or brothers/sisters. So friends have always superior place in our hearts and our life. Friendship is the most precious and beautiful gift of god. So don’t break this thread for small reasons or big misunderstandings. Take every possible chance to clear the thing because True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost. Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.

(Ok now one note for readers: if i have hurt your feelings in any way, i am extremely sorry. There is nothing intentionally written here, and doesn't point to anyone. So again i am sorry. Don't take it in personal way please.....)