EXPECTATIONS - What you are Expecting from this?

EXPECTATIONS… The easiest way to get hurt. Really this one word is the root cause of all the pain, sorrows, and sadness.

The more you EXPECT, the more you get hurt. Sometimes you EXPECT something more from yourself and you are hurt. It loses your self-confidence. Everyone has so many big/small expectations from you and you also has the same towards them.

But mainly what I personally hate is the expectations of this so called ‘SOCIETY’ from us, they always expect us to behave in a goody-goody manners, they want over-decent and extra well-manners from us particularly from youngsters (especially from girls truly!!!). I just don’t know why they all want us to be like them in everything. And when we are unable to fulfill their expectations, the storm of Advices and criticism comes to us to make us feel that we are making a terrible mistake by not satisfying their expectations. This is truly irritating and sometimes mind-blasting.

Another thing is to EXPECT ‘SORRRY or THANK YOU’ from anyone. Here, thank you is not a problem but when you expect ‘SORRY’ from anyone, and if it doesn’t come, yes… The thread of relationship starts getting weaker. I have also previously said that ‘NO SORRY, NO THANK YOU’ is only good in philosophy. If you try to use it in friendship, I bet you will hurt your friends intentionally or unintentionally. Because once you made a mistake, if you realize it, one SORRY is a proof to others that you realized your mistake. Because after your mistake, your impression to others is changed and magically a small ‘SORRY’ can create it back. Sometimes your mistake may be big; at that time sorry doesn’t work but I can say it can make the mistake smaller. So Here I am not advising anyone to say sorry, but only clearing the picture about how desperately SORRY is expected. And publically many people disagree with this, but they surely EXPECT it because it is human nature.

‘To expect and To get Hurt when Receiving Unexpected Things from Expected Ones.’

Ok, this is not so good and public appealing because you also Expected something when you read the title..Isn’t it?