If you think every person coming into your Life is wrong then you should look at yourself and ask - Do you think, you are right every time?
Firstly, it was just a status update on FB then I thought a little bit n started writing whatever came in. So, this question will always be answered negatively. How can I be wrong? I have done so much for them(family/friends/he/she), still they don't value me. These are the words of the Ego which lies inside us. I can never be wrong. Every time I get hurt, its all because of them/others. They should behave the way I want them to be at the time I want.
Nobody thinks that they may get hurt because they don't understand the situation properly or may be because of over expectations. If you say, I don't expect anything from anyone so that I can't get hurt then I am damn sure you are lying. And you are pretending not to expect because at some point of time, you are already hurt by someone in your life :-). But Expectation is a decease which increases if not fulfilled.
Surprised! Just think of this: You expect something from a person and its not fulfilled, result - you are hurt. And then may be you expect from another person and think 'No, he/she will never hurt me. He/ She is not like previous person.' So you increase your expectations. Lol.... and the next result - you guessed it right, one more time. And this time in a new way. [This is something really strange thing to understand but human psychology, i think]
This thing happens to mostly those who always proudly pretend - I don't care. I think they have fear that if they won't say this, they will get hurt. But in either ways, they are not special human beings, so they silently expect a lot and obviously get hurt. So don't pretend to be different and speak up. At least, others will know what you want them to be. And if you can't speak then stop blaming the world. It's not their fault but your so called ego that is responsible for your situation.
Ohh... Enough now. You are feeling sleepy I guess!! Actually, I never edit my posts. Just write it once and then bang.. So sorry for that. Don't expect too much now ;-) and ya, I expect a small comment from you
Firstly, it was just a status update on FB then I thought a little bit n started writing whatever came in. So, this question will always be answered negatively. How can I be wrong? I have done so much for them(family/friends/he/she), still they don't value me. These are the words of the Ego which lies inside us. I can never be wrong. Every time I get hurt, its all because of them/others. They should behave the way I want them to be at the time I want.
Nobody thinks that they may get hurt because they don't understand the situation properly or may be because of over expectations. If you say, I don't expect anything from anyone so that I can't get hurt then I am damn sure you are lying. And you are pretending not to expect because at some point of time, you are already hurt by someone in your life :-). But Expectation is a decease which increases if not fulfilled.
Surprised! Just think of this: You expect something from a person and its not fulfilled, result - you are hurt. And then may be you expect from another person and think 'No, he/she will never hurt me. He/ She is not like previous person.' So you increase your expectations. Lol.... and the next result - you guessed it right, one more time. And this time in a new way. [This is something really strange thing to understand but human psychology, i think]
This thing happens to mostly those who always proudly pretend - I don't care. I think they have fear that if they won't say this, they will get hurt. But in either ways, they are not special human beings, so they silently expect a lot and obviously get hurt. So don't pretend to be different and speak up. At least, others will know what you want them to be. And if you can't speak then stop blaming the world. It's not their fault but your so called ego that is responsible for your situation.
Ohh... Enough now. You are feeling sleepy I guess!! Actually, I never edit my posts. Just write it once and then bang.. So sorry for that. Don't expect too much now ;-) and ya, I expect a small comment from you
