"Can we stop ACTING/PRETENDING our self as a too good person for a while??"
Sometimes mind screams like this.. I think the best actors of the World we have not in Bollywood but in our BEAUTIFUL society. Not because they act so realistically, but because their acting is not so good and still we keep on supporting them. Actually the reality is Sometimes we also have to be a part of this acting.
I think now acting has become a full time job for us which we all do without any payment because we want to maintain the credit in this Society. All the time we try to act the way as the world want us to be. I have heard many people saying "I don't care of this society", but at the same time I can see that they are trying to pretend that they don't care. If you really don't care then what is the need to show it publicly?? Just acting. We act because we don't want to show our actual personality to this world because we think Society will not accept us the way we are. How strange is that
"Our lack of SELF-CONFIDENCE gives us the Super CONFIDENCE to act as another character."
The best examples I have seen in Social gatherings. So funny and truly Bad acting!! Everyone with plastic smiles, unnecessary sugar-coated dialogues and above all big useless laughs. Here I admit that Sometimes I have to be a part of this things. Not intentionally because I generally remain silent in these talks and people considers it as I agree with them. If anyone asks for opinion then I surely speak what I think but otherwise I just enjoy their act!! Because usually I like to observe these conversations rather than being a part of them. Everyone proves that their point is right(actually there is no point in these talks). That's why I like to see actors on TV rather than going in these gatherings. But when once we are there, we have to act as we are very Enjoying.
I have read somewhere that "A person is truly measured by the things which he does when he is alone." because at that time we can be what we are. but I think if it is so, then We should always ACT as we are alone so that we have no need to ACT more. Its very hard to do, and also some kind of selfish(as we all think selfishness is BAD thing), but I think there is no selfishness in BEING YOURSELF.
(Try it yourself, If you don' care of ................... :) )
Ok, so now don't act to be nice in your comments here :
1. Such kind of social gatherings are nothing more than a steady mob. And one rule
ReplyDeleteMob has only emotions no logic....
2. "That's why I like to see actors on TV rather than going in these gatherings." Often that mob talks about the tv actors, including about those who play a so called game called cricket. So for me this type of gathering is more boring.
2.1 Savaj na tola no hoy (Kind of self appreciation! )
3. "I generally remain silent in these talks and people considers it as I agree with them." Lucky coz when i remain silent they thought I'm not agree or not interested. In any case they are true.
4. "then We should always ACT as we are alone so that we have no need to ACT more." more difficult is to bee alone in middle of the mob. More fun abt this is we can easily analyze the mob.
આવે વખતે કચકચાવીને ક્રિટીસાઈઝ કરવું જેથી પબ્લિક સ્તબ્ધ થઇ જાય અને એ બહાને પણ લોકોના સાચા મુખૌટા બહાર આવે...અનુભવ બોલતા હૈ બીડું...
ReplyDeleteNice Issue...Lekin Ye aage se chali aati hai..
ReplyDeleteRoot of all this problem is as u said LACK OF SELF CONFIDENCE..
and thr is no permanent solution for it..temporary is too hard also..
Ya people can have over confidence easily...
But thr is a way to make fun out of this..
Argue wid them without any point...Or pull their leg...But you should act in such way so tht it seems u taking it so much seriously...and you are too eager to know the truth...Do double acting....
Try it next time..it works..
Bye..
Raghuvir.
As usual dialogue...
it is so true...sometimes poeple even forget who they are..poeple always imitate others or the person they look forward to. And in that process they end up in loosing their own identity. In todays world it is really very hard to be yourself. I loved the article shruti... :-)
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