FRIENDS and 'THE FRIENDSHIP'

Friendship- has become very easy to say word today. Especially after arrival of these community sites, the word is used very often in different forms. In these sites, we are having too too many friends. Some are school/college mates, some are family, some are unknown chat friends, and the latest category is by the way friends (means we have seen their face once but never talk to them). But the Friendship is different with everyone. I still get surprised when I see 100-200 friends on orkut profiles!!!, Though I prefer to use the word 'classmate' sometimes (instead of 'friend' obviously).

Friends are no doubt the most important and memorable in our life. But when talking about true or best friends or you can say, close friends, we have to be very very careful to handle the relation. Sometimes a small mistake or misunderstanding may lead to a disastrous end of your friendship. True friends are hard to meet, but sometimes it is even harder to manage. I am not saying that friendship is a tough relation, but when you know that your friend is very good person with a little insecure nature or a little bit of bad qualities, it is tough to handle it. Especially when it directly hurts you, at that time you have to sportily ignore it. Generally insecurity or similar small things lead us to break the friendship or it makes the relation slightly bitter, but it’s up to your nature whether you take it as a weakness of your friend or a reason to break the friendship. The worst part is that when you review your close friends from others’ talk. I mean if you think they are your true/good friends then what is the need to ask others’ about them. And surprisingly what is the reason to believe such talks?? In friendship, you may interfere in small things of your friend or you can give advice in very small issues but sometimes you have to willingly forgive some very big issues or big things. That is the beauty of friendship.

People say ‘In friendship No Sorry, No Thank you’, but I think a small sorry can be very helpful sometime to hold the breaking friendship. No more time or formal sentences are needed in friendship, just one ‘Hi!’ is enough (Today only one miscall is needed :-)!!).

Friends are those with whom we share all the things which we generally not share to anyone, not even with our parents or brothers/sisters. So friends have always superior place in our hearts and our life. Friendship is the most precious and beautiful gift of god. So don’t break this thread for small reasons or big misunderstandings. Take every possible chance to clear the thing because True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost. Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.

(Ok now one note for readers: if i have hurt your feelings in any way, i am extremely sorry. There is nothing intentionally written here, and doesn't point to anyone. So again i am sorry. Don't take it in personal way please.....)