SUCCESS - Handle Very Carefully

'Some pleasant surprises in life can cause dangerous Side-Effects.'

When I wrote this status message in Gtalk, so many questions came... What do you mean to say?...What is the surprise?...Why such heavy words?...and like dis.

I said 'this may be heavy but its true.' Sometimes we have no idea how strange and unbelievable results may come after any achievement. This is very obvious, i mean everyone wants to be successful and if it is not possible, he/she tries to be in better contact with other achievers. And there is nothing wrong from their sides. but whenever you achieve any success, you have more responsibilities how to handle this success and how to share it with everyone.

"Sometimes Your success matters more to others than to you."

Whenever you achieve something, the view of many people towards you changes sometimes by 180 degrees. Some of your relationships are changed completely for lifetime, some new relations comes to you with a smiley face mask because of your success. Some old relations may face some problems. but some friends are always there with you to support you in any situation and those are the true ones. but dangerous in the sense, you may have to face some very bitter true facts of some persons like you have never expected. How they are becoming more friendly now and how some others are now going far away, you feel helpless in both situations..

Here you have to handle it very carefully. Means you should be the same person as you were before and it is very necessary to avoid any kind of egos or rudeness. Because both these things will totally kill yourself. I think every step towards success takes you more and more up from the Earth and unintentionally you are changing many things (good and bad both!!). So just don't forget from where you came to this point and be kind and polite to everyone. This is the only way which will make you happy from inside and you will also make others happy.

Whenever any success comes to you, don't forget to look at it's backside as it comes with more responsibilities and some good lessons of a lifetime. But whatever the situation it is, Never try to lie to yourself. Just be honest at least to yourself as it will help you to keep going on the right path.

Hmmm.... more than enough of heavy words here... so at last, i just wanna say If You have achieved something small or big, then do one thing for sure please... It's my request to you.. and this one thing you must do. You know what? Are CELEBRATE IT... Party Karo.. Enjoy your success... :) ...and...."જલસા કરો" ...and B+...

Pray that success will not come any faster than you are able to endure it. - Elbert Hubbard